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About mexicochar

I am a gardener, knitter, cycling enthusiast , and mom to 2 adult daughters. A prairie girl turned ocean lover and loving life in the country on central Vancouver Island. Oh, I also work in banking but I try not to dwell on that.

On the Road Again

One of the best things about having no destination are the places you end up. Some are better than others but it is always exciting to be driving down an unknown road to find a beach town at the end. Today we said goodbye to Oaxaca and entered the state of Guerrero, which has been hit hard with a drop in tourism over the last few years.

We are in Playa Ventura, about 1.5 hours south of Acapulco. It looks as though it was once a thriving coastal town but now it is empty. Really, really empty. We are the only non Mexicans here. We pulled in at 3:30, hot and hungry, the streets were quiet and so were the hotels. I had looked on Trip Advisor and found 4 possible places to stay-all of them were crap. The first one was very dirty and over priced, the second one had 2 pit bulls come barking at us and when we jumped back in the car the owner came out and got all huffy that we called her dogs crazy. And the other 2 places we couldn’t find. Thankfully we happened upon a small bungalow rental with secure parking. The couple that own it are very nice and have been quite helpful.

The town has a bad vibe though. Really desperate. We have been told the place is always empty and the people seem unhappy. The small vegetable market is poorly stocked and the produce is all spoiling. Nick and I don’t like the feel here so we are going to get back on the road really early.

We were up at 6 am and on the road by 7am. Whew. I’m not going there again! The owner of the place we stayed said it is totally safe, there is just no work and since the drug wars started the tourists stopped coming. The place made me feel sad. Nick and the girls said the same.

I like being out early, we got to see the kids on their way to school, the roosters strutting and doing their thing. Packs of mangey dogs having an early morning scratch and a look around before the heat sets in. We watched the sun rise over the incredibly tropical coastline and went in search for coffee.

The girls were also quite alert this morning and we talked about education, drug wars, practiced Spanish, and how to give adequate notice in roadworks so you don’t almost crash…We also explained the toll road system down here, it seems to me that you charge a cuota, and thenyou start building the better highway. Today I paid 100 pesos for 13km of road that was under construction the whole way. So irritating but if we went around we would have ended up driving through Acapulco. Not fun. I saw today, for the first time, another gringo tourist travelling by car. Seems unlikely, doesn’t it? We have covered a lot of miles and it was at a military checkpoint that I saw them. Almost stopped for a chat but given the circumstances we carried on. Holy police and military around Acapulco!! Three levels: state police, federal police and the military. Faces covered, big machine guns mounted on pick up trucks-pretty intense. They were only around the city and once we cleared through we didn’t see them again.

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Off to Zihuatenajo next and the Michoacan coast. Very Excited:)

Feliz Cumpleanos

Half a Century. He looks like his father more and more. I’d say he moves slower but that is impossible:) We celebrated 50 years today starting with breakfast in bed, and then the beach. We finished with champagne on the beach at sunset and a handstand competition.

Yesterday Nick walked down memory lane with a drive out to Puerto Angel. We stopped in Mazunte ( pretty, hippy town), Zipolite ( nude beach, so yes, Nick loved it there) and then pressed on to Angel. Last time Nick came through here he was on a boat and Mazunte/ Zipolite were just a couple palapas with dirt roads. Now, they are paved with shops, alternative healing, yoga, etc. Nick was stunned, how time marches on in just 18 years.

Nick went looking for a guy he met last time in Puerto Angel named Marco Polo. The first time they met, Nick came ashore and Marco Polo was there smoking a giant joint and asked if there was anything he could get him. This time, Nick asked around and he found him, swinging in a hammock, smoking a giant joint once again! Well, the rest of our day was determined. We went to his sister’s place for lunch, watched the fishermen bring in their catch at the beach, the girls swam and we had a massive feast. You eat what they catch that day, so we had fresh dorado and shrimp. So yummy. We drove back to Puerto Escondido in the evening as the sun was setting and had a quiet evening in.

While we were out we were watched the Sierra Madres get smaller and smaller and the landscape change ever so slightly. We talked about how Oaxaca is known for their artists and much of that is due to the fact that 50% of the population is indigenous and up until the 1990’s widely uneducated. Many children were kept home as school is taught in spanish and it didn’ t recognize the local dialects. Instead, kids were kept home and taught handicrafts, and skills in self sufficiency. Of course that means they can scrape a living together but it isn’t much. It also means the art and textiles produced are spectacular.

Our big birthday feast for Nick today was bbq chicken for lunch and then the spiciest chorizo and pork tacos I have EVER had. So, so good. The girls ate them also and we were all downing any drink we could get our hands on. It was really fuuny, for about 5 minutes I couldn’t speak as I thought my ears were on fire. We only went to eat there as no one else was there and we felt bad for him. Once we sat down, the place filled up!! Nick was most pleased.

Tomorrow we are starting our trek north, but to be honest if I didn’t have that damn rental car I wouldn’t leave. Ever. I think I almost have the girls turned on to living in Mexico, just for a while. Seasonal maybe, like October to May. We’ll see, I like the element of surprise. Our plan tomorrow is to stop south of Acapulco for one night and then be in Zihuatinejo for G’s birthday. I don’t think I will have internet for a while, it is pretty remote where we are headed. We may have a chance to release turtles into the sea tomorrow night as the beach we are staying in (God willing) is famous for the turtles. Mads and I watched a turtle come up on the beach once before and lay eggs but to release them would be equally cool.

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Puerto Escondido

Nick and the girls are swimming right now in this tiny little bay called Playa Carrazalillo while a couple guys playing bongo drums are entertaining us. The waves are lapping up the beach and the sand is very hot. You have to make a run for it to get in the water. It is really hot here, the water is warmer than in Melaque and the town is more developed.

It took us a couple tries to find this place, the first beach we drove to had 7 tour buses parked along it. Playa Angelita, described as a great beach for kids and swimming but sweet Jesus, the throngs of people. Nick wondered aloud where are they all peeing?! We met a guy Jorge, who tried very hard to sell us food, boat rides, swimming with dolphins, anything really. He followed us along the beach. We stayed for about 5 minutes and got the hell out of there.

We rented a room in a house owned by a Scot named Harry. It’s a 5 bedroom place with a shared kitchen, private bathroom, and massive pool in the back. We have for 39 usd a night. A great deal and we are going to spend 4 nights there. It’s located next door to the lavandaria and walking distance to all the tiendas.

Our drive here was epic. We took the old road (Nick’s idea) and it went through every small pueblito. 6.5 hours– of windy switchback roads. We had to pull over so G and I could pee on the side of the road as every 3 peso bano we passed reminded me of Mexican bathrooms 15 years ago. Think hole in the ground with a shower curtain door..and bring your own TP. Mads was car sick near the end and for entertainment they tried to spit watermelon on the passing cars. The road was so narrow they were successful several times. Part of the road was under construction and we were following a grader which was making the road passable as we drove. Crazy. How quickly we can go from the developed cities to the backwaters. We came upon a car accident on one of the switchbacks. A truck transporting chickens smashed head on into a big rig. There were dead chickens everywhere but I couldn’t see the driver. Either he was stuck in the crumpled truck or he had already been taken away. We didn’t see an ambulance or police for about a half hour. It is so remote that it would be difficult to get help.

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This is the highway! Good grief! The never ending highway.

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Oaxaca

There is a huge class divide in Mexico and although I had known this before it has been made very obvious while travelling inland.

In Queretaro, we stayed with friends and they took us around town to show off their city. It was great, we ate at the oldest restaurant in the city, then went for dessert at another Queretaro institution. We drove to Pena de Bernal to have breakfast overlooking one of the largest monoliths in the world. We went to a winery and sampled some great wine. The weekend finished with a BBQ and watching the football game. We discussed animal welfare, politics, retirement, and work; it was like being at home only warmer. It made me think about our indigenous friends on the coast and how our time spent with them is so different. The language barrier is part of it as well as Jorge’s family inland all speak English.

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But it also speaks to the massive indigenous population and lack of opportunity. In Mexico the Spanish ruling class have the opportunity and expectation, I suppose, to get an education, carry on with a good career, travel, etc. Whereas the indigenous people are the labourers, the workers in the shops, taxi drivers and farmers. I wonder what the statistics are of indigenous people who make it to university or move on to positions of power? Imagine being indigenous and a woman, how small your world would be.

We have travelled now into Oaxaca where the Indian population is the majority and you can see how the state is treated like a poor relation. The pueblos have more unpaved roads, there are way more corrugated metal shacks, the churches less ornate in the square and there is a general feeling of unrest. But the beauty of the landscape, the amazing people, fantastic art and wonderful food more than make up for the political unrest that is making our time here a bit more complicated. Our plan for today is to go to Monte Alban and then into the city where we have a hotel booked right near Santo Domingo. I want to explore a women’s cooperative of handicrafts, plus I also want to go to the Museum of Contemporary Art. The problem is the teachers are planning a major protest today to fight for better wages and we have been told all major routes around the city will be blockaded. Crappy. That poses a problem for us. Do we chance it and go with our plans and risk sitting in traffic for hours or do we skip the ruins, get into the city and try for the ruins tomorrow?

We arrived in Oaxaca 2 days ago after an 8 hour drive from Queretaro. The drive was good, I found it quick and the change in landscape astounding. It was smog filled and industrial until we got passed Puebla and then it was like a desert. The girls were snapping pictures of the biggest cacti we had ever seen and it was getting hot. We went through a crazy amount of toll booths and on the exit side there were people selling everything from drinks to puppies. Every time we were stopped for roadworks, there would be group carrying baskets selling drinks, food, beer, gum, and individual cigarettes. This would be in the middle of nowhere, hours from the nearest town.

Hours Later……

So here is how the day played out. We went to Monte Alban without any traffic troubles but G is sick right now and the air up there is so thin that we were just walking in and she couldn’t breathe. Her little heart was pounding in her chest. Nick and I were afraid it was in her lungs as her cough sounds terrible so we drove into Oaxaca proper and found a hospital.

I may not have mentioned this before but parking in any major city is impossible. So Nick dropped us off at the entrance while he went to park. I somehow in my first grade Spanish managed to jump the queue and see a doctor straight away. He took her temperature, checked her lungs, looked at her throat, and hooked her up to a machine to test her pulse, respiration and lung capacity. He said her lungs are clear, but she has an infection in her throat. Rest and no sun for a few days plus antibiotics. He typed the prescription on A TYPEWRITER that didn’t even have auto return. It was circa 1950 I think. Crazy. The whole ward was tiny; tiny beds, old equipment, poor lighting but as the doctor nattered away in Spanish and I caught the gist, I was thinking how great it was to walk right in. It would be a 5 day wait back home. So 400 pesos later we had our results and were on our way. G spent most of the day in the hotel while we walked around the city in shifts.

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There is so much more that we did over the last few days. A few standouts: the rug I bought from the tiny indigenous woman who was such a great saleswoman. I didn’t really want the rug but it was worth it just for the experience. We all laughed as her and I went back and forth over the price. Then later Maddy came back with a beautiful wrap that she paid half of what I paid! Mads is the new haggler! We also watched the teachers march through the city blocking roads and chanting for better pay. There is also a 3 million dollar reward for any information leading to the missing student teachers. Any occupy the zocalo is also ongoing.

We are off to Puerto Escondido tomorrow with a side trip to Monte Alban. We will give it another try. Hopefully G will feel a bit better and she will be able to breathe up there. If not we will have to give it a miss as we have a place booked through airbnb tomorrow.

San Miguel de Allende

This is a city of artists, writers and a lot of ex pats. We were told about 15000 live there year round. Our approach into the city was a bit chaotic plus I was struggling with airbnb and a reservation we had. Needless to say, our first impression was not a good one.

Our plan was to stop for lunch somewhere with wifi and confirm the address of our place in Queretero but by the time we got settled it was too late in the day to get back on the road. So we now had the problem of finding a place for one night in San Miguel. We were feeling road weary and grumpy. We popped into a little cafe called Cafe Oso Azul for some homemade yogurt and granola for the kids and a coffee for me. We must have been there for some time as the owner approached to see if we needed help.
We explained our predicament and after a few minutes he graciously took us to his apartment and that was where we stayed for the night. What a lovely man, his name is Jen, he his Danish and has been living there for 18 years. His apartment was great, just down the street from the main market.
In San Miguel we walked and walked and walked. The city is hilly, the jardins numerous and the churches are gorgeous. We bought a BBQ chicken, some tortillas and had a great feast. In the evening we went to the square for a wander, G bought a hat from the hat man and mariachi bands were playing everywhere. The hat man first started trying to sell Nick a hat and when Nick asked for a specific one, he dropped all his wares and said he’d be right back. So there we were with all his stuff in the middle of the plaza. When he was coming back Nick pretended to be selling them yelling,”sombreros, barato, barato”. It was pretty funny.
The kids remember the tacos and a parade that we decided to join. A group of people were singing, all dressed in baroque style, following first a burro, then a man who had a costume on of a paper mâché woman that stood about 10 feet in the air. Then there was an older couple walking together and then the rest of the parade. We walked down a few streets to an entrance to a restaurant where everyone started to chant for them to kiss. “Beso, Beso”. We still don’t know what it was about but it was fun. By then it was almost 11pm and although the streets were still busy with people strolling, we called it a night.
The morning brought a beautiful sunrise and we went up on the roof to feel the cool mountain air and drink coffee. A lot of life exists on the roofs in Mexico. Firstly, it is where all laundry is hung, it is also where the dogs and cats tend to hang out. We watched the merchants waking up the city, opening their stores and having a chat with the passersby. We also watched a hot air balloon floating over the city. Very cool, I never realized how loud the fire is or how big the flame is. I think I would like to try that.
We went to a gallery and artists studio on the outside of town called Fabrica de la Aurora, it is a massive old textile mill that now houses artists from the area. We could have spent hours there, we spoke with a few artists themselves, looked at a wide range of styles and I almost bought a painting from a local artist named Azuela. The painting was very vibrant and depicted typical rural life in the area around San Miguel. I felt rushed so I passed on it but I’m now kicking myself.
There are only a few inland towns that I can see myself living in and San Miguel is one if them. Everyone was so friendly and it just has a really good vibe about it.

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Mexico at Night

It’s 3 am and we are in Queretaro staying with friends we met in Canada just a few weeks ago. Their place is high above the city in a lovely residential neighbourhood that we couldn’t have experienced otherwise. Here’s the kicker; there is a LIVE Mariachi band playing outside across the street. No neighbours are complaining, the police haven’t been called, it is just part of the fabric of Mexican culture. For us, it’s a mixed blessing, we love the music and the pursuit of a good time in this country but we are also used to quiet nights so no one can sleep through it. I wonder when they will finish? I have plans at 9 am and I’d like to workout beforehand.

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Can you see the Mariachi player under the light? They have 3 trumpets.

The road since Tlaquepaque has been an interesting one. The weather has gotten cooler as we have climbed into the mountains and we are in shorts from noon until 5ish but then the warm clothes come on again. We left Tlaquepaque around midday and set the GPS to Guanajuato. I was driving so I gave Samantha another chance as I felt really stressed trying to navigate city traffic and Spanish. She redeemed herself somewhat. Although, we did end up going through a very small town, where according to her directions the road disappeared and we were on a dirt path through an abandoned lot. BUT, it did spit us out back near a ring road and provided a bit of adventure. No one died! Yay Samantha!!

All the guide books recommend that you DO NOT drive in Guanajuato, it is a city of tunnels that intersect underground and the parking in the centro is a nightmare. So we stayed at a very overpriced hotel on the edge of town and they shuttled us in. The shuttle and comfy bed were the only good things I can say about this place. By the time we left I was weary with the incompetence of every person in there. Sadly my Spanish isn’t good enough to complain effectively, I only get blank stares.

I love, love, love Guanajuato. It is a city steeped in history, the fight for Mexican Independance was based in this area and the architecture is pretty awesome. It is also a city of stairs, narrow passages, breathtaking views and friendly people. We walked up to the top of El Pipila to the viewpoint at the top ( about 500 steps, I swear) and then carried on to Diego Rivera’s childhood home that is now a museum. That’s where I realized I left my water bottle at the top of El Pipila and had to turn around and run back up. Everyone declined to come with me. Lazy so and so’s.

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I would like to return to Guanajuato, spend a week or two in the area; I think we just scratched the surface. There are hot springs, numerous galleries and museums plus some pretty great shopping.

We moved on from there to San Miguel de Allede but I’ll write about it tomorrow. The Mariachi band has finished, it’s 4am and the people across the street have moved on to house music. It’s quieter, relatively speaking, and I am going to try to sleep.

Tlaquepaque and Navigation

Ok, we fired Samantha, the USA GPS voice because she was butchering all the Spanish pronunciations of the streets and highways we are travelling. I felt bad for her for a minute but she was really really irritating. So now it is Ana from Latin America but that means we have to follow directions in Spanish as well. A crash course whilst navigating the Autopista in Guadalajara. Interesting to say the least.

We took the toll road through Colima to get here, very boring except for 2 guys carrying tree trunks down the highway and what appeared to be a dead horse. Oh, and the volcano was smoking so that was pretty neat as well. We went through 3 tolls costing 125p each. Now these tolls are for the upkeep of the road, divided highway and all that. But, one special stretch of road is single lane, going uphill and every massive Mexican truck loaded with sugarcane flying everywhere is directly in front of you. And you know what’s at the top of the hill? A double lane, divided highway, that’s what. Seriously?! Well, Nick swore a blue streak. The kids are now much more educated in English swear words.

Once we pulled into town and went for a wander around the square, we had a bite to eat, booked a hotel and then had to find the hotel in the dark. That was a mistake. This is Mexican, large city, 5 lane, aggressive driving. We trusted Ana to take us there and she did okay except for not mentioning that we had to pull across 5 lanes choked with buses spewing black smoke, taxis weaving in and out, and people cycling. Seriously cycling, in the dark on a major freeway. Needless to say we missed our entrance to the hotel. Nick pulled over across the street and we all just stared at it forlornly. Our only option was to go around the ring road again and have another crack at it. This time Nick wasn’t taking any shit and he drove just like the Mexicans and we made it! I think I sprouted a few new grey hairs.

So here we are. At the El Tapatio Hotel, a gated bizarre collection of private residences and resort. It has a winding cobblestone road that goes up, up, up and the hotel is at the top. It has a 360 degree view of the city and the biggest swimming pool I have ever seen. There is a nightclub, 3 restaurants, a game room, store, etc. The most interesting thing is that it is crawling with the federales. There are at least a hundred of them. They are patrolling, and one is sitting out by our car now. Everyone is acting nonchalant but when we asked at reception he was vague and wouldn’t say. I don’t know if I feel more safe or less. The bellman said there is an “event” happening so perhaps someone important is here for a wedding or meeting. It reminds us of another well maintained but perpetually empty resort called Las Hadas, reportedly run by a cartel. I’m curious to see what it looks by daylight.

Our food on the road hasn’t been great. I had fruit and nuts in the car today but we ended up skipping lunch and had an early dinner around 4. Georgia was ready to kill by then and honestly, we were all cranky. That was 5 hours in the car. Of course everyone was hungry again at 9 so we ordered pizza. If we could’ve navigated off this damn mountaintop in the dark we might have been able to find something better.

Tomorrow, we will spend the morning in the beautiful galleries of Tlaquepaque and then head towards Queratero.

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Back in Mexico

Well, after a year hiatus from blogging and also a year off from travelling to Mexico, here we are again. We are back in Melaque after flying into Puerto Vallarta on Sunday. We are on a 5 week road trip down the coast (maybe) and up through central Mexico.

Up to here has been the easy part. We have travelled extensively in this area and we visited all of our favourite haunts on the way down. It’s funny how things change but yet stay the same. The road into Tenacatita is open again and the beach and swimming are as good as they have ever been. But, the restaurants are gone, the campground gone and no one was about. It feels like it did 17 years ago when we first went there. A heavy police presence was there, in fact there were more police than people.

We left PV thinking getting to Melaque would save us some money as it is so expensive in the city. And since we have always stayed in Melaque at the same place we found out that prices here are similar. A bit of a shock, but we did find a lovely bungalow with a pool for 800p for 2 nights. It has a small kitchen and 2 beds. Thankfully I bought coffee for the morning because the damn rooster next door starts crowing at 5am.

Tomorrow we leave and are heading towards Guadalajara. My one rule is that we have to be in a town by 4 so we can get a hotel and be settled before dark. We have heard of some unrest along the Michoacan coast so we are going to go inland and down. Once we get to Puerto Escondido we can evaluate whether or not to drive the coast.

The kids are loving being back and spent hours in the ocean today bodysurfing. They are surviving on chorizo tacos, yogurt and granola. Since you don’t get fruit or veg with your meals down here we will be stopping at little stands along the highway for fresh mango, watermelon and pineapple. I am so far surviving on bacon and watermelon, hmmm, my favourite things.

We were out for tacos tonight and a little boy at the next table started choking, the mom jumped up and was panicking, so just then Nick stood up, grabbed the boy from his mother and wedged his fist under his ribs and squeezed. A taco shot out and the boy started to wail, a very scary moment and Nick was very calm about the whole thing. Thankfully, it all ended well as I hate to think what would have happened otherwise.

Weather wise, it has been overcast and muggy. I find it pretty chilly in the morning and comfortable to sleep. I can hear the waves breaking, smell the sea air and can’t think of anyplace I’d rather be. It’s good to be back.

Food

 

When we were planning our trip I was worried about what we would eat, how much to take, and how to keep it all cold. I had spoken about this on an earlier post and it is one topic that people asked me about when we got back. It was challenging and I don’t think I have it quite figured out yet. I had made a complete meal plan for each day right down to snacks and once on the boat I promptly put it away and never looked at it again. It was a good guide though, to help me prepare before we left.

I don’t like to use processed foods. I grow my own garden and prepare everything from scratch. This is hard to do on a boat. Also, I am a vegetarian, the rest of my family is not but I do all the cooking. It was also really, really hot so we all kinda fancied easy, cooling foods. So all the meals I was thinking of had to please everyone on minimal ingredients that could possibly be used in other recipes. It was alot to wrap my head around, I am more of a fly by the seat of my pants kinda girl, not a planner.

First, I perused the internet looking for “boat friendly” recipes, tips on what to avoid, etc. Then I had to look at each family member and include some of their favourites plus omit things I know they won’t eat. For example, the girls like beans (tinned, English baked) but not my homegrown cooked mexican style beans. Plus, you can’t keep leftover beans on a boat with minimal refrigeration, they get stinky really, really fast. So I compromised and ate baked tinned beans even though I don’t care for them. One tin could be eaten in one sitting. I then created a list of things I knew I would need, the basics, potatoes, onions, etc. Nick wanted to buy tinned potatoes. Gag. No way am I eating potatoes out of tin. Thinking of it gives me the shivers. Imagine the texture. Gross, gross, gross. Plus, we only were going for 2 weeks not 2 months. Once I had an idea I made up a list for each day and used lunch the next day for leftovers. One of the girls saw the list and commented that they don’t really like to eat leftovers. Could I just make a fresh meal each time? Seriously? Have we met?

I started with breakfast, I knew we would eat big each morning and then kinda pick throughout the day. I made pancake mix, cookie and biscuit mix before we left so on the boat I only had to add an egg/ powdered milk and we were good to go. We brought unwashed eggs from our own chickens as they keep longer, and most breaky meals consisted of eggs, fruit, beans, and toast. For the first couple days we had milk so the girls had cereal until it ran out. I also made granola and brought that along. We had a strawberry, peas, lettuce and kale haul from the garden so that was on every plate in the beginning as well.

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We never had a regular lunch. I was just picking at whatever we felt like, tomatoes and avocados with chickpeas, sandwiches, fruit, or chips with salsa. The girls snacked on cheese and crackers, tuna and veggie sticks. I had a snack container under the table that anyone could grab from throughout the day. It was filled with corn cakes, chips, nuts and dried fruit. The chips ran out first, naturally.

Dinner was a bit of a kicker for me. It was always late, felt hodge podgy and unorganized. It was always after we dropped anchor, had a couple drinks, had a swim, and then just when I would like to relax for the evening everyone would be hungry. I probably could have avoided the feeling of drudgery by not having a gin & tonic first but Nick told me that once the anchor was dropped it was imperative to have a drink and watch to make sure we weren’t dragging.  Aye Aye Captain!

So here’s what I made: burgers and fries, tofu and veggie stir fry, chickpea curry, veggie meatloaf (once we got the oven working), spaghetti with black bean tomato sauce, hot dogs, veggie wraps, caesar salad and repeat all those foods again. Bit boring.  I don’t really know what else I would have liked to have had but I feel like I kinda dropped the ball on dinner.

I need to write a cookbook for vegetarian sailors. I have yet to find one. Has anyone out there seen one? Let me know ’cause I would snap that up. Avocados! That’s what I forgot, I ate a lot of them. Maybe it was the heat and the tropical feel of the holiday but I couldn’t get enough of them. Madeline started putting peanut butter on her corn cakes and called them peanut butter plates and that was easily her go to food whereas Georgia went straight for the chips and Nick for the cookies. I pre made the mix and only had to add the wet. 100% whole wheat chocolate chip, so yummy. We gave half away to our new friends on another boat that were celebrating a birthday.

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NIck and Georgia having a pre bed cookie feast

NIck and Georgia having a pre bed cookie feast

Thrift store find, probably getting weird metal poisoning as it is circa 1960 but I don't care.

Thrift store find, probably getting weird metal poisoning as it is circa 1960 but I don’t care.

The BEST part of each day was my morning coffee, even Nick commented that he couldn’t wait for that first cup. I think it is the fresh air, the sunrise and quietness. All you hear are the birds and waves lapping. I ran out of my good coffee but even the crappy over priced stuff I had to buy tasted good in it.

Realistically, we should be fishing and being more self sufficient but we tried and we suck. I think it is a steep learning curve. We will try again next time. We stopped to get more provisions in Refuge Cove ( good selection, prices not bad), Cortes Island ( expensive, not alot of vegetarian choice), Lund ( same as Refuge Cove), and Hornby Island ( the best of the lot but not in Desolation Sound area, it is closer to Vancouver Island and our last stop on the way home).

Our ice box on the boat is vintage, original 1976 and therefore doesn’t keep things very cold. The lid isn’t insulated so ice had to be replaced every 2-3 days. I tried to only go into it once or twice a day so I think next time I will bring a new, well insulated cooler and keep all our really perishable foods in that under the stairs. The drinks and condiments can stay in the ice box and it might just work better.

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We had this hammock made in Mexico for our old VW van about 15 years ago.

Garbage wasn’t a problem until 2 days before we got home. We were really careful not to put organics into it and we had a separate bag for recycling but it started to smell in the heat of the day. Apparently, there is a guy in Desolation Sound that comes by in a barge to collect garbage for a fee but we never saw him. I reduced any packaging before we got on the boat so it was minimal but nevertheless it is hard to store on a small boat.

I am sure once we are on my dream boat I will have a luxury garbage system. Yeah right.

 

 

We Survived (and thrived)

The boat is docked at its new home in Deep Bay, we all had a delicious sleep in our own beds and last night I sat on the couch working on a puzzle surrounded by no one. It was great. That being said, I could have stayed out wandering the unknown inlets of Desolation Sound for another month.

Here are a few tips I learned while sailing:

1. You don’t need to pack a bra. You won’t wear it, in fact you won’t wear much of anything. You are in the middle of nowhere with no one around. Remember sunscreen on those bits that haven’t seen the light of day since your early 20’s.

2. You will eat more. I don’t know why, as you are sitting most of the time. Maybe wind makes you peckish?

3. Bring more games for the kids. They start to go squirrelly after a couple days and thrive on driving eachother mad.

4. Bring more wine. That goes without saying.

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Gigi was the only one to catch a fish, although Nick did catch 6 prawns and a fish in our prawn trap. The first time we put the trap down we didn’t put enough line with it so when we came back about 8 hours later we couldn’t find it. We searched and searched and finally found it way out at sea, we were so excited to just have the trap back we didn’t care about it being empty.

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We hit as many of the must see’s as we could and rarely stayed in one place for more than one night. Nick and I are now masters at anchoring and stern tying as we only docked for 2 nights during the trip. The best marina in my opinion was Refuge Cove, it;s unpretentious, well stocked, interesting, great showers and has a used book store. All it needs is free wifi and it would be set!!

Refuge Cove, a co-op marina shared amongst 18 owners who also live there.

Refuge Cove, a co-op marina shared amongst 18 owners who also live there.

Madeline on her way to the bookstore and to get a treat.

Madeline on her way to the bookstore and to get a treat.

I tried to keep rules on the boat to a minimum but one did come into effect after day 2. No talking after 9:30pm. Honestly, the chatter of my children. I love them to bits but I really don’t care about anything anyone has to say by that time. It had been oh, 14 hours everyday of talking and it was taking its toll. Also, why do the kids HAVE to tell me something the second I pick up my book? Or, the minute Nick nods off for a nap in the hammock, the kids find him irresistible? Oh, and no farting in the boat. Ever. This rule was widely ignored to my dismay.

A rare moment of relaxation for Nick.

A rare moment of relaxation for Nick.

Showering. I never thought how much I appreciate the act but now, let me tell you it is a luxury we should all take a moment to reflect on. Granted we were in the sea a lot and that makes you itchy and your hair start to dread after a couple days but also it’s hot, quarters are small, clothes are limited so a funky smell started to permeate the boat. We did find some amazing freshwater lakes to swim in and a couple of waterfalls so I carried soap with me everywhere just in case an impromptu cleaning opportunity arose.

Shower time!! Freezing water but oh so gratifying. Immediately after I was walking back to the shore and got my feet stuck in gooey mud as the tide was going out. Super.

Shower time!! Freezing water but oh so gratifying. Immediately after I was walking back to the shore and got my feet stuck in gooey mud as the tide was going out. Super.

Nick having his shower. Teehee.

Nick having his shower. Teehee.

Cassell Lake at the tip of Teakerne Arm. You have to use the ropes to get in and out as it is a slippery rock.

Cassell Lake at the tip of Teakerne Arm. You have to use the ropes to get in and out as it is a slippery rock.

The kids are now saying that instead of going to Europe next year that we should sail to Mexico. Hmm, maybe.